Judges Chapter 21

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October 7, 2025

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The People Feel Very Sorry 😢

After the big fight with the tribe of Benjamin, the people of Israel felt terrible. They had promised God they wouldn’t let their daughters marry any men from Benjamin. But now they realized this meant the tribe of Benjamin might disappear forever! The people went to Bethel,ᵃ a special place where they talked to God. They cried and prayed, “God of Israel, why did this sad thing happen? We don’t want to lose one of our tribes!” They built an altar and gave gifts to God, hoping He would help them figure out what to do.

A Difficult Solution 🤔

The leaders remembered that everyone was supposed to come to their big meeting, but the people from a town called Jabesh-gileadᵇ didn’t show up. According to their rules, this meant those people were in big trouble. The Israelites sent soldiers to Jabesh-gilead. They found 400 young women there who weren’t married yet and brought them back safely.ᶜ

Making Peace Again 🕊️

The Israelites sent a message to the men from Benjamin who were hiding in the mountains: “We want to be friends again! Please come back!” The Benjamin men came back, and the Israelites gave them the women from Jabesh-gilead to be their wives. But there still weren’t enough wives for all the Benjamin men.

A Creative Plan 💡

The wise leaders had an idea! They remembered there was a big party that happened every year in Shiloh,ᵈ where all the young women would dance and celebrate. “Here’s what we’ll do,” they told the remaining Benjamin men. “Hide in the grape gardens near Shiloh. When the young women come out to dance at the festival, you can each choose one to be your wife. Then you can start your families and rebuild your towns!”

Happy Ending! 🎉

That’s exactly what happened! During the dancing at the festival, each Benjamin man found a wife. The women’s families weren’t upset because it wasn’t really their fault – it just happened during the celebration! The Benjamin men took their new wives back home and started rebuilding their towns. Soon the tribe of Benjamin was growing strong again, and all twelve tribes of Israel were complete once more. Everyone went back to their own homes happy that their big family of tribes was back together. But the story reminds us that during this time, Israel didn’t have a king to help them make good decisions, so sometimes people made choices that caused problems.

Kid-Friendly Footnotes:

  • Bethel: This was like a special church where people went to pray and talk to God. The name means “God’s house.”
  • Jabesh-gilead: This was a town that was supposed to help in the big meeting but didn’t come. It was like not showing up when your whole class was supposed to work together on something important.
  • What really happened: The Bible tells us about some very serious things that happened long ago. People had to follow very strict rules back then, which were much different from today.
  • Shiloh: This was like the main church for all of Israel, where they had their biggest celebrations and festivals to worship God.
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    Now the men of Israel had sworn in Mizpeh, saying, There shall not any of us give his daughter unto Benjamin to wife.
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    And the people came to the house of God, and abode there till even before God, and lifted up their voices, and wept sore;
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    And said, O LORD God of Israel, why is this come to pass in Israel, that there should be to day one tribe lacking in Israel?
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    And it came to pass on the morrow, that the people rose early, and built there an altar, and offered burnt offerings and peace offerings.
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    And the children of Israel said, Who [is there] among all the tribes of Israel that came not up with the congregation unto the LORD? For they had made a great oath concerning him that came not up to the LORD to Mizpeh, saying, He shall surely be put to death.
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    And the children of Israel repented them for Benjamin their brother, and said, There is one tribe cut off from Israel this day.
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    How shall we do for wives for them that remain, seeing we have sworn by the LORD that we will not give them of our daughters to wives?
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    And they said, What one [is there] of the tribes of Israel that came not up to Mizpeh to the LORD? And, behold, there came none to the camp from Jabeshgilead to the assembly.
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    For the people were numbered, and, behold, [there were] none of the inhabitants of Jabeshgilead there.
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    And the congregation sent thither twelve thousand men of the valiantest, and commanded them, saying, Go and smite the inhabitants of Jabeshgilead with the edge of the sword, with the women and the children.
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    And this [is] the thing that ye shall do, Ye shall utterly destroy every male, and every woman that hath lain by man.
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    And they found among the inhabitants of Jabeshgilead four hundred young virgins, that had known no man by lying with any male: and they brought them unto the camp to Shiloh, which [is] in the land of Canaan.
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    And the whole congregation sent [some] to speak to the children of Benjamin that [were] in the rock Rimmon, and to call peaceably unto them.
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    And Benjamin came again at that time; and they gave them wives which they had saved alive of the women of Jabeshgilead: and yet so they sufficed them not.
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    And the people repented them for Benjamin, because that the LORD had made a breach in the tribes of Israel.
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    Then the elders of the congregation said, How shall we do for wives for them that remain, seeing the women are destroyed out of Benjamin?
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    And they said, [There must be] an inheritance for them that be escaped of Benjamin, that a tribe be not destroyed out of Israel.
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    Howbeit we may not give them wives of our daughters: for the children of Israel have sworn, saying, Cursed [be] he that giveth a wife to Benjamin.
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    Then they said, Behold, [there is] a feast of the LORD in Shiloh yearly [in a place] which [is] on the north side of Bethel, on the east side of the highway that goeth up from Bethel to Shechem, and on the south of Lebonah.
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    Therefore they commanded the children of Benjamin, saying, Go and lie in wait in the vineyards;
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    And see, and, behold, if the daughters of Shiloh come out to dance in dances, then come ye out of the vineyards, and catch you every man his wife of the daughters of Shiloh, and go to the land of Benjamin.
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    And it shall be, when their fathers or their brethren come unto us to complain, that we will say unto them, Be favourable unto them for our sakes: because we reserved not to each man his wife in the war: for ye did not give unto them at this time, [that] ye should be guilty.
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    And the children of Benjamin did so, and took [them] wives, according to their number, of them that danced, whom they caught: and they went and returned unto their inheritance, and repaired the cities, and dwelt in them.
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    And the children of Israel departed thence at that time, every man to his tribe and to his family, and they went out from thence every man to his inheritance.
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    In those days [there was] no king in Israel: every man did [that which was] right in his own eyes.
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    Now the men of Israel had sworn an oath at Mizpah, saying, “Not one of us will give his daughter in marriage to a Benjamite.”
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    So the people came to Bethel and sat there before God until evening, lifting up their voices and weeping bitterly.
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    “Why, O LORD God of Israel,” they cried out, “has this happened in Israel? Today in Israel one tribe is missing!”
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    The next day the people got up early, built an altar there, and presented burnt offerings and peace offerings.
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    The Israelites asked, “Who among all the tribes of Israel did not come to the assembly before the LORD?” For they had taken a solemn oath that anyone who failed to come up before the LORD at Mizpah would surely be put to death.
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    And the Israelites grieved for their brothers, the Benjamites, and said, “Today a tribe is cut off from Israel.
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    What should we do about wives for the survivors, since we have sworn by the LORD not to give them our daughters in marriage?”
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    So they asked, “Which one of the tribes of Israel failed to come up before the LORD at Mizpah?” And, in fact, no one from Jabesh-gilead had come to the camp for the assembly.
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    For when the people were counted, none of the residents of Jabesh-gilead were there.
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    So the congregation sent 12,000 of their most valiant men and commanded them: “Go and put to the sword those living in Jabesh-gilead, including women and children.
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    This is what you are to do: Devote to destruction every male, as well as every female who has had relations with a man.”
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    So they found among the inhabitants of Jabesh-gilead four hundred young women who had not had relations with a man, and they brought them to the camp at Shiloh in the land of Canaan.
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    Then the whole congregation sent a message of peace to the Benjamites who were at the rock of Rimmon.
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    And at that time the Benjamites returned and were given the women who were spared from Jabesh-gilead. But there were not enough women for all of them.
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    The people grieved for Benjamin, because the LORD had made a void in the tribes of Israel.
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    Then the elders of the congregation said, “What should we do about wives for those who remain, since the women of Benjamin have been destroyed?”
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    They added, “There must be heirs for the survivors of Benjamin, so that a tribe of Israel will not be wiped out.
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    But we cannot give them our daughters as wives.” For the Israelites had sworn, “Cursed is he who gives a wife to a Benjamite.”
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    “But look,” they said, “there is a yearly feast to the LORD in Shiloh, which is north of Bethel east of the road that goes up from Bethel to Shechem, and south of Lebonah.”
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    So they commanded the Benjamites: “Go, hide in the vineyards
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    and watch. When you see the daughters of Shiloh come out to perform their dances, each of you is to come out of the vineyards, catch for himself a wife from the daughters of Shiloh, and go to the land of Benjamin.
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    When their fathers or brothers come to us to complain, we will tell them, ‘Do us a favor by helping them, since we did not get wives for each of them in the war. Since you did not actually give them your daughters, you have no guilt.’”
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    The Benjamites did as instructed and carried away the number of women they needed from the dancers they caught. They went back to their own inheritance, rebuilt their cities, and settled in them.
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    And at that time, each of the Israelites returned from there to his own tribe and clan, each to his own inheritance.
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    In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes.

Judges Chapter 21 Commentary

When Everything Falls Apart (And How We Pick Up the Pieces)

What’s Judges 21 about?

After a devastating civil war nearly wipes out the tribe of Benjamin, Israel faces a crisis: how do you rebuild a people when you’ve sworn not to help them? This chapter shows us both the depths of human brokenness and the messy, imperfect ways communities try to heal after unthinkable tragedy.

The Full Context

Judges 21 comes at the absolute rock bottom of Israel’s moral and social collapse. The previous chapters detail a horrific story – a Levite’s concubine is gang-raped and murdered in Benjamin’s territory, leading to a civil war that nearly exterminates an entire tribe. Now Israel faces the aftermath: Benjamin has only 600 men left, no women, and the other tribes had sworn at Mizpah never to give their daughters to Benjamin in marriage. It’s a crisis of survival wrapped in a crisis of conscience.

This passage serves as the tragic conclusion to the book of Judges, illustrating the chaos that results when “everyone did what was right in their own eyes” (Judges 21:25). The author presents this not as God’s ideal plan, but as a sobering picture of what happens when a society abandons divine wisdom for human solutions. The literary structure builds toward this final refrain, showing us a nation that has lost its moral compass entirely, yet still struggles with the tension between justice and mercy.

What the Ancient Words Tell Us

The Hebrew word נִחַם (nicham) appears twice in this chapter and carries enormous weight. When the text says Israel “was grieved” or “repented” concerning Benjamin, it’s not just feeling sorry – it’s the same word used when God “relents” from judgment. There’s a divine quality to this grief, a recognition that something precious has been lost that goes beyond mere tribal politics.

Grammar Geeks

The phrase in verse 15 uses פֶּרֶץ (perez) – literally “a breach” or “gap torn in a wall.” This isn’t just missing people; it’s describing Israel like a city with a gaping hole in its defenses, vulnerable and incomplete.

The word תַּחְבּוּלוֹת (tachbulot) in verse 5 is fascinating – it means “steering” or “guidance,” like piloting a ship. When Israel seeks “guidance” about what to do, they’re desperately looking for someone to navigate them through this moral storm. The irony? They’re seeking human solutions instead of divine direction.

What Would the Original Audience Have Heard?

Ancient Near Eastern listeners would immediately recognize the gravity of a tribe facing extinction. In their world, losing your tribal identity meant losing your connection to land, ancestors, and covenant promises. Benjamin wasn’t just facing demographic decline – they were staring at complete obliteration from history.

The oath-breaking dilemma would have resonated deeply with ancient audiences who understood that vows, especially religious ones, carried life-and-death consequences. When Israel realizes they’ve painted themselves into a corner with their hasty oath, ancient readers would feel the weight of this trap. Breaking a sacred vow could bring divine judgment, but allowing a tribe to disappear seemed equally catastrophic.

Did You Know?

The festival at Shiloh mentioned in verses 19-21 was likely connected to the Feast of Tabernacles, when young women traditionally participated in celebratory dancing. This detail shows how Israel perverted even their religious festivals to solve their self-created crisis.

The solution Israel devises – attacking Jabesh-Gilead and orchestrating the “kidnapping” at Shiloh – would have shocked ancient readers not because it was violent (sadly, that was common), but because it revealed how far they’d fallen from God’s justice. They’re trying to solve the consequences of violence with more violence.

But Wait… Why Did They…?

Why would Israel nearly exterminate a tribe, then desperately try to save them? This isn’t schizophrenia – it’s the logical outcome of human justice without divine wisdom. They acted in righteous anger over Benjamin’s sin, but their “solution” created a bigger problem than the original crime.

The most puzzling aspect is their convoluted reasoning about the oath. They swear not to give their daughters to Benjamin, then immediately start scheming to get around their own vow. Why not just acknowledge they made a mistake and break the oath? Because in their minds, keeping the letter of the law (even a bad law) mattered more than the spirit of restoration.

Wrestling with the Text

This passage forces us to confront uncomfortable questions about justice, mercy, and unintended consequences. Israel’s initial response to Benjamin’s sin wasn’t wrong – sexual violence demands serious consequences. But their all-or-nothing approach, followed by their desperate damage control, reveals how human solutions often create cycles of harm rather than genuine healing.

The text doesn’t celebrate Israel’s “solutions.” The attack on Jabesh-Gilead and the orchestrated kidnapping at Shiloh aren’t presented as heroic rescue missions – they’re desperate, morally questionable attempts to fix what shouldn’t have been broken so completely in the first place.

“When we try to solve the consequences of our anger with more anger, we don’t get justice – we get chaos.”

There’s a profound lesson here about the difference between consequences and punishment. Benjamin needed consequences for their failure to deliver justice, but near-genocide wasn’t a consequence – it was vengeance disguised as righteousness.

How This Changes Everything

This chapter reveals the bankruptcy of purely human justice. When we make decisions based solely on our anger, our cultural expectations, or our desire to look righteous, we often create bigger problems than we solve. Israel’s story shows us what happens when communities respond to moral crises without seeking divine wisdom.

But there’s also a glimmer of hope in their grief and desperate attempts to preserve Benjamin. Even in their moral confusion, they recognized that losing part of the covenant community was unacceptable. Their methods were wrong, but their instinct to preserve rather than destroy reflects something deeper – an understanding that restoration, however messy, is better than elimination.

Wait, That’s Strange…

Notice that God is almost completely absent from the decision-making process in this chapter. Israel asks Him one question (Judges 21:2-3), but then proceeds with their own schemes without seeking further guidance. This silence speaks volumes about how far they’ve drifted from divine relationship.

Key Takeaway

When human anger drives our pursuit of justice, we often end up creating more brokenness than we heal. True restoration requires both accountability for wrongdoing and wisdom that goes beyond our immediate emotional responses.

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