Genesis Chapter 38

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October 1, 2025

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👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Judah Starts His Own Family

Once upon a time, Judah (one of Jacob’s twelve sons) decided to leave his brothers and go live in a different place. He made friends with a man named Hirah and met a woman there. Judah married this woman, and they had three sons together: Er, Onan, and Shelah.

💔 When Things Go Wrong

When Er grew up, his father Judah found him a wife named Tamar. But Er made very bad choices and didn’t obey God. Because Er was so wickedᵃ, God decided his life on earth was over. Back in those days, families had a special rule: if a married man died without having children, his brother was supposed to marry the widow and have children to carry on the family name. So Judah told his second son Onan, “You need to marry Tamar and have children for your brother Er.” But Onan was selfish. He didn’t want to have children that would be counted as Er’s children instead of his own. So he tricked everyone and made sure Tamar couldn’t have babies. This made God very sad and angry, so God took Onan’s life too.

😢 Tamar Waits and Waits

Now Judah was scared! Two of his sons had died after marrying Tamar. He was worried that if his youngest son Shelah married her, he might die too. So Judah told Tamar, “Go back to your father’s house and wait until Shelah grows up.” But secretly, Judah never planned to let Shelah marry her. Tamar went home and waited… and waited… and waited. Years went by, and she saw that Shelah had grown up, but nobody came to get her for the wedding. She realized Judah had broken his promiseᵇ.

🎭 Tamar’s Clever Plan

One day, Tamar heard that Judah was traveling to a nearby town for sheep shearing time (like a big farm festival). She came up with a plan. She took off her widow’s clothes and put on a veil that covered her face completely, then sat by the road where Judah would pass by. When Judah saw her, he didn’t recognize his own daughter-in-law because of the veil. He thought she was someone else entirely. Tamar was very clever – she asked him for something valuable as a promise that he would keep his word. Judah gave her his special seal (like an ID card), the cord it hung on, and his walking stick.

😱 The Big Surprise

Three months later, people told Judah, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar is going to have a baby, but she’s not married!” Judah was very angry and said she should be punished severely. But when they brought Tamar out, she had a surprise. She showed everyone the seal, cord, and walking stick, saying, “The man who owns these things is the father of my baby.” Judah looked at his own things and realized what had happened! He felt very ashamed and said, “She was more honest than I was. I should have kept my promise to let her marry my son Shelah.”

👶👶 Twin Boys Are Born

When it was time for Tamar’s baby to be born, there was another surprise – she was having twins! During the birth, one baby stuck his hand out first, so the midwife tied a red thread around his wrist to mark him as the firstborn. But then he pulled his hand back in, and his brother came out first instead! The midwife said, “My goodness! Look how this one broke out ahead!” So they named the first baby Perez, which means “breakthrough.” The second baby, who had the red thread, was named Zerah.

🌟 God’s Amazing Plan

Even though this family made many mistakes, God had a wonderful plan. Baby Perez grew up and became the great-great-great (and many more greats!) grandfather of King David, and even later, of Jesus! God can use even our mistakes to do amazing thingsᶜ.

Kid-Friendly Footnotes:

  • Wicked: This means Er was very disobedient to God and hurt other people with his choices. God wants us to be kind and good!
  • Broken Promise: When someone says they’ll do something but then doesn’t do it. God always keeps His promises to us, and He wants us to keep our promises too.
  • God’s Amazing Plan: Even when people make bad choices, God is so powerful and loving that He can still work everything out for good. That’s why we can always trust Him!
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    And it came to pass at that time, that Judah went down from his brethren, and turned in to a certain Adullamite, whose name [was] Hirah.
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    And Judah saw there a daughter of a certain Canaanite, whose name [was] Shuah; and he took her, and went in unto her.
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    And she conceived, and bare a son; and he called his name Er.
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    And she conceived again, and bare a son; and she called his name Onan.
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    And she yet again conceived, and bare a son; and called his name Shelah: and he was at Chezib, when she bare him.
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    And Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, whose name [was] Tamar.
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    And Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD; and the LORD slew him.
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    And Judah said unto Onan, Go in unto thy brother’s wife, and marry her, and raise up seed to thy brother.
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    And Onan knew that the seed should not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in unto his brother’s wife, that he spilled [it] on the ground, lest that he should give seed to his brother.
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    And the thing which he did displeased the LORD: wherefore he slew him also.
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    Then said Judah to Tamar his daughter in law, Remain a widow at thy father’s house, till Shelah my son be grown: for he said, Lest peradventure he die also, as his brethren [did]. And Tamar went and dwelt in her father’s house.
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    And in process of time the daughter of Shuah Judah’s wife died; and Judah was comforted, and went up unto his sheepshearers to Timnath, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite.
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    And it was told Tamar, saying, Behold thy father in law goeth up to Timnath to shear his sheep.
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    And she put her widow’s garments off from her, and covered her with a vail, and wrapped herself, and sat in an open place, which [is] by the way to Timnath; for she saw that Shelah was grown, and she was not given unto him to wife.
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    When Judah saw her, he thought her [to be] an harlot; because she had covered her face.
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    And he turned unto her by the way, and said, Go to, I pray thee, let me come in unto thee; (for he knew not that she [was] his daughter in law.) And she said, What wilt thou give me, that thou mayest come in unto me?
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    And he said, I will send [thee] a kid from the flock. And she said, Wilt thou give [me] a pledge, till thou send [it]?
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    And he said, What pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy staff that [is] in thine hand. And he gave [it] her, and came in unto her, and she conceived by him.
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    And she arose, and went away, and laid by her vail from her, and put on the garments of her widowhood.
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    And Judah sent the kid by the hand of his friend the Adullamite, to receive [his] pledge from the woman’s hand: but he found her not.
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    Then he asked the men of that place, saying, Where [is] the harlot, that [was] openly by the way side? And they said, There was no harlot in this [place].
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    And he returned to Judah, and said, I cannot find her; and also the men of the place said, [that] there was no harlot in this [place].
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    And Judah said, Let her take [it] to her, lest we be shamed: behold, I sent this kid, and thou hast not found her.
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    And it came to pass about three months after, that it was told Judah, saying, Tamar thy daughter in law hath played the harlot; and also, behold, she [is] with child by whoredom. And Judah said, Bring her forth, and let her be burnt.
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    When she [was] brought forth, she sent to her father in law, saying, By the man, whose these [are, am] I with child: and she said, Discern, I pray thee, whose [are] these, the signet, and bracelets, and staff.
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    And Judah acknowledged [them], and said, She hath been more righteous than I; because that I gave her not to Shelah my son. And he knew her again no more.
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    And it came to pass in the time of her travail, that, behold, twins [were] in her womb.
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    And it came to pass, when she travailed, that [the one] put out [his] hand: and the midwife took and bound upon his hand a scarlet thread, saying, This came out first.
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    And it came to pass, as he drew back his hand, that, behold, his brother came out: and she said, How hast thou broken forth? [this] breach [be] upon thee: therefore his name was called Pharez.
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    And afterward came out his brother, that had the scarlet thread upon his hand: and his name was called Zarah.
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    About that time, Judah left his brothers and settled near a man named Hirah, an Adullamite.
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    There Judah saw the daughter of a Canaanite man named Shua, and he took her as a wife and slept with her.
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    So she conceived and gave birth to a son, and Judah named him Er.
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    Again she conceived and gave birth to a son, and she named him Onan.
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    Then she gave birth to another son and named him Shelah; it was at Chezib that she gave birth to him.
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    Now Judah acquired a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar.
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    But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD; so the LORD put him to death.
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    Then Judah said to Onan, “Sleep with your brother’s wife. Perform your duty as her brother-in-law and raise up offspring for your brother.”
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    But Onan knew that the offspring would not belong to him; so whenever he would sleep with his brother’s wife, he would spill his seed on the ground so that he would not produce offspring for his brother.
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    What he did was wicked in the sight of the LORD, so He put Onan to death as well.
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    Then Judah said to his daughter-in-law Tamar, “Live as a widow in your father’s house until my son Shelah grows up.” For he thought, “He may die too, like his brothers.” So Tamar went to live in her father’s house.
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    After a long time Judah’s wife, the daughter of Shua, died. When Judah had finished mourning, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite went up to his sheepshearers at Timnah.
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    When Tamar was told, “Your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep,”
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    she removed her widow’s garments, covered her face with a veil to disguise herself, and sat at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the way to Timnah. For she saw that although Shelah had grown up, she had not been given to him as a wife.
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    When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute because she had covered her face.
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    Not realizing that she was his daughter-in-law, he went over to her and said, “Come now, let me sleep with you.” “What will you give me for sleeping with you?” she inquired.
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    “I will send you a young goat from my flock,” Judah answered. But she replied, “Only if you leave me something as a pledge until you send it.”
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    “What pledge should I give you?” he asked. She answered, “Your seal and your cord, and the staff in your hand.” So he gave them to her and slept with her, and she became pregnant by him.
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    Then Tamar got up and departed. And she removed her veil and put on her widow’s garments again.
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    Now when Judah sent his friend Hirah the Adullamite with the young goat to collect the items he had left with the woman, he could not find her.
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    He asked the men of that place, “Where is the shrine prostitute who was beside the road at Enaim?” “No shrine prostitute has been here,” they answered.
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    So Hirah returned to Judah and said, “I could not find her, and furthermore, the men of that place said, ‘No shrine prostitute has been here.’”
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    “Let her keep the items,” Judah replied. “Otherwise we will become a laughingstock. After all, I did send her this young goat, but you could not find her.”
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    About three months later, Judah was told, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar has prostituted herself, and now she is pregnant.” “Bring her out!” Judah replied. “Let her be burned to death!”
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    As she was being brought out, Tamar sent a message to her father-in-law: “I am pregnant by the man to whom these items belong.” And she added, “Please examine them. Whose seal and cord and staff are these?”
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    Judah recognized the items and said, “She is more righteous than I, since I did not give her to my son Shelah.” And he did not have relations with her again.
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    When the time came for Tamar to give birth, there were twins in her womb.
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    And as she was giving birth, one of them put out his hand; so the midwife took a scarlet thread and tied it around his wrist. “This one came out first,” she announced.
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    But when he pulled his hand back and his brother came out, she said, “You have broken out first!” So he was named Perez.
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    Then his brother came out with the scarlet thread around his wrist, and he was named Zerah.

Genesis Chapter 38 Commentary

Genesis 38 – The Scandal That Saved the Messiah’s Lineage

What’s this chapter about?

Just when you think you know where the Joseph story is heading, Genesis drops the most uncomfortable family drama imaginable. Genesis 38 is the story of Judah, Tamar, and a scandal so shocking it would make modern reality TV producers blush – yet it’s precisely through this mess that God preserves the line of the Messiah.

The Full Context

Right in the middle of the Joseph narrative – after his brothers sell him into slavery but before they face famine – the text suddenly shifts focus to Judah’s family drama. This isn’t accidental. The author deliberately interrupts the Joseph story to show us what’s happening with the brother who will become the ancestor of Israel’s royal line and, ultimately, of Jesus himself.

Written during Israel’s formative period, this account serves multiple purposes: it explains tribal relationships, addresses legal customs around levirate marriage, and most importantly, demonstrates how God’s covenant promises survive even through human failure and moral compromise. The literary placement is masterful – while Joseph maintains his integrity in Egypt, we see Judah’s moral collapse, setting up his later transformation and leadership role among his brothers.

What the Ancient Words Tell Us

The Hebrew storytelling here is brutally honest. When Judah “went down” (yarad) from his brothers in Genesis 38:1, it’s not just geographical – it’s moral and spiritual. This same word describes the descent into Egypt, into exile, into judgment.

The name Tamar means “date palm” – a tree known for its resilience and ability to thrive in harsh conditions. The irony isn’t lost: while Judah descends morally, Tamar (the outsider) becomes the one who preserves the covenant line through her determined action.

Grammar Geeks

When Judah says “She is more righteous than I” in verse 26, the Hebrew uses tsadqah mimmenni – literally “she has been more righteous than me.” The perfect tense suggests her righteousness was established and recognized, while his unrighteousness was the ongoing problem.

What Would the Original Audience Have Heard?

Ancient Near Eastern audiences would have immediately recognized the levirate marriage customs at play here. When Er dies childless, his brother Onan has a legal and religious obligation to produce an heir for his deceased brother – ensuring the family name and inheritance don’t disappear.

But here’s what makes this story so shocking: Onan’s sin isn’t what many modern readers assume. The Hebrew phrase describes him “destroying [the seed] on the ground” (shichet artzah) – he’s deliberately preventing pregnancy to avoid giving Er an heir while still enjoying relations with Tamar. He’s gaming the system, taking the pleasure while shirking the responsibility.

Did You Know?

Archaeological evidence shows that levirate marriage was practiced throughout the ancient Near East, not just among Israelites. Clay tablets from Nuzi (15th century BCE) contain legal documents detailing these arrangements, showing how seriously ancient cultures took the obligation to preserve family lines.

But Wait… Why Did Tamar Do That?

Here’s where modern readers often get uncomfortable, but ancient audiences would have understood immediately: Tamar had been legally wronged. Judah promised her his third son Shelah when he came of age, but then reneged on the deal. In that culture, this left her in legal limbo – not free to remarry elsewhere, but denied her right to children and security within Judah’s family.

Her deception wasn’t born of malice but desperation. She was claiming what was legally and morally hers through the only means available. The Hebrew legal system later codified protections for exactly this situation (see Deuteronomy 25:5-10).

Wait, That’s Strange…

Why would Judah approach what he thought was a shrine prostitute? The Hebrew word qedeshah (literally “holy woman”) refers to sacred prostitution practiced at Canaanite fertility shrines. Judah’s descent isn’t just moral – he’s also engaging in idolatrous practices, making his later recognition of Tamar’s righteousness even more significant.

Wrestling with the Text

This story forces us to grapple with uncomfortable questions about how God works through broken people and messy situations. Judah’s moral failures are undeniable – he breaks his promise to Tamar, engages in what he believes is prostitution, and then hypocritically condemns her to death when she’s found pregnant.

Yet through this dysfunction, God preserves the messianic line. Perez, born from this union, becomes an ancestor of King David and ultimately of Jesus (Matthew 1:3). The scandal doesn’t disqualify – it demonstrates that God’s promises transcend human failure.

The text doesn’t endorse anyone’s behavior here. Instead, it shows us that God’s covenant faithfulness operates even when his people are faithless. Tamar’s actions, while legally justified in her context, still involve deception. Judah’s behavior is clearly condemned. Yet through their imperfect union, God’s perfect plan moves forward.

How This Changes Everything

This chapter radically reframes how we understand God’s work in the world. We often expect God to work through the righteous, the pure, the morally exemplary. But Genesis 38 shows us that God’s grace is bigger than our failures.

“God doesn’t need perfect people to fulfill perfect promises – He specializes in writing straight with crooked lines.”

When Matthew includes Tamar in Jesus’s genealogy, he’s making a theological statement: the Messiah didn’t come through a sanitized lineage but through real people with real problems. The same God who brought the Savior through Judah and Tamar’s mess can work through our mess too.

This also sets up Judah’s later transformation. The man who fails his daughter-in-law so catastrophically will later offer himself as a substitute for Benjamin (Genesis 44:33). Recognition of his own failures creates space for genuine leadership and self-sacrifice.

Key Takeaway

God’s promises don’t depend on our performance – they’re fulfilled through His faithfulness, even when worked out through our most broken relationships and compromised choices.

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