Genesis Chapter 16

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October 1, 2025

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Sarai’s Big Problem 😔

Abram and his wife Sarai had been married for a very long time, but they didn’t have any children. This made Sarai very sad because she really wanted to be a mom. Back in those days, having children was super important for families. Sarai had a helper named Hagar who came from Egypt. Sarai thought of a plan that people sometimes did back then when they couldn’t have babies.

Sarai’s Plan 💭

Sarai said to Abram, “I can’t have babies, but maybe Hagar can have a baby for us! Then we could raise the baby as our own.” Abram thought this sounded okay, so he agreed to Sarai’s plan. After Abram had lived in the land of Canaan for ten years, Sarai gave Hagar to Abram as a second wifeᵃ. This was allowed back then, even though it seems strange to us today.

When Plans Go Wrong 😰

Soon Hagar was going to have a baby! But instead of being happy, Hagar started acting mean to Sarai. She thought she was more important now because she could have babies and Sarai couldn’t. This made Sarai really angry! She told Abram, “This is all your fault! Now Hagar thinks she’s better than me!” Sarai was so upset that she started being really mean to Hagar.

Hagar Runs Away 🏃‍♀️

Sarai was so mean to Hagar that poor Hagar decided to run away into the desert! This was very dangerous because the desert had wild animals, and she didn’t have much food or water. Hagar was walking toward Egypt, where she came from, feeling scared and all alone.

God’s Special Helper Finds Hagar 👼

But guess what? God saw everything that was happening! He sent His special helperᵇ to find Hagar by a water well in the desert. The special helper asked, “Hagar, where did you come from and where are you going?” Hagar said, “I’m running away from Sarai because she’s being mean to me.”

God’s Amazing Promise 🌟

Then God’s special helper gave Hagar some wonderful news: “Go back to Sarai and try to get along with her. I know it’s hard, but God has amazing plans for you!” The helper continued: “God is going to give you so many children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren that you won’t be able to count them all! Your baby will be a boy, and you should name him Ishmael, which means ‘God hears,’ because God heard you crying and wants to help you.”

Hagar Discovers Something Amazing About God 👀

Hagar was so surprised that God cared about her! She had thought that maybe God only cared about important people like Abram and Sarai. But here was God, talking to her—just a servant from another country! Hagar said, “Wow! God really sees me and cares about me!” She called God “the God who sees me”ᶜ because she realized that God sees everyone, even when they feel forgotten or alone.

The Special Well 💧

Hagar named that well “the well of the One who sees me and keeps me alive.” Even today, people can visit that well and remember how God took care of Hagar when she was scared and alone.

Baby Ishmael is Born 🎉

Hagar went back to Abram and Sarai, and soon her baby boy was born! Abram named him Ishmael, just like God’s helper had said. Abram was 86 years old when baby Ishmael was born. Even though this family had some problems, God had a plan to take care of everyone—including Hagar and her son Ishmael!

Fun Facts for Kids:

  • Second wife: Long ago, men could have more than one wife. This seems weird to us now, but it was normal back then. Today, husbands and wives promise to love only each other.
  • God’s special helper: This was a very special angel who spoke for God. Some people think this might have been Jesus before He was born as a baby!
  • “The God who sees me”: Hagar learned that God sees everyone—rich or poor, important or not important. God loves and cares about every single person, including you!
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    Now Sarai Abram’s wife bare him no children: and she had an handmaid, an Egyptian, whose name [was] Hagar.
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    And Sarai said unto Abram, Behold now, the LORD hath restrained me from bearing: I pray thee, go in unto my maid; it may be that I may obtain children by her. And Abram hearkened to the voice of Sarai.
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    And Sarai Abram’s wife took Hagar her maid the Egyptian, after Abram had dwelt ten years in the land of Canaan, and gave her to her husband Abram to be his wife.
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    And he went in unto Hagar, and she conceived: and when she saw that she had conceived, her mistress was despised in her eyes.
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    And Sarai said unto Abram, My wrong [be] upon thee: I have given my maid into thy bosom; and when she saw that she had conceived, I was despised in her eyes: the LORD judge between me and thee.
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    But Abram said unto Sarai, Behold, thy maid [is] in thy hand; do to her as it pleaseth thee. And when Sarai dealt hardly with her, she fled from her face.
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    And the angel of the LORD found her by a fountain of water in the wilderness, by the fountain in the way to Shur.
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    And he said, Hagar, Sarai’s maid, whence camest thou? and whither wilt thou go? And she said, I flee from the face of my mistress Sarai.
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    And the angel of the LORD said unto her, Return to thy mistress, and submit thyself under her hands.
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    And the angel of the LORD said unto her, I will multiply thy seed exceedingly, that it shall not be numbered for multitude.
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    And the angel of the LORD said unto her, Behold, thou [art] with child, and shalt bear a son, and shalt call his name Ishmael; because the LORD hath heard thy affliction.
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    And he will be a wild man; his hand [will be] against every man, and every man’s hand against him; and he shall dwell in the presence of all his brethren.
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    And she called the name of the LORD that spake unto her, Thou God seest me: for she said, Have I also here looked after him that seeth me?
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    Wherefore the well was called Beerlahairoi; behold, [it is] between Kadesh and Bered.
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    And Hagar bare Abram a son: and Abram called his son’s name, which Hagar bare, Ishmael.
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    And Abram [was] fourscore and six years old, when Hagar bare Ishmael to Abram.
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    Now Abram’s wife Sarai had borne him no children, but she had an Egyptian maidservant named Hagar.
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    So Sarai said to Abram, “Look now, the LORD has prevented me from bearing children. Please go to my maidservant; perhaps I can build a family by her.” And Abram listened to the voice of Sarai.
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    So after he had lived in Canaan for ten years, his wife Sarai took her Egyptian maidservant Hagar and gave her to Abram to be his wife.
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    And he slept with Hagar, and she conceived. But when Hagar realized that she was pregnant, she began to despise her mistress.
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    Then Sarai said to Abram, “May the wrong done to me be upon you! I delivered my servant into your arms, and ever since she saw that she was pregnant, she has treated me with contempt. May the LORD judge between you and me.”
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    “Here,” said Abram, “your servant is in your hands. Do whatever you want with her.” Then Sarai treated Hagar so harshly that she fled from her.
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    Now the angel of the LORD found Hagar by a spring of water in the desert—the spring along the road to Shur.
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    “Hagar, servant of Sarai,” he said, “where have you come from, and where are you going?” “I am running away from my mistress Sarai,” she replied.
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    So the angel of the LORD told her, “Return to your mistress and submit to her authority.”
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    Then the angel added, “I will greatly multiply your offspring so that they will be too numerous to count.”
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    The angel of the LORD proceeded: “Behold, you have conceived and will bear a son. And you shall name him Ishmael, for the LORD has heard your cry of affliction.
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    He will be a wild donkey of a man, and his hand will be against everyone, and everyone’s hand against him; he will live in hostility toward all his brothers.”
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    So Hagar gave this name to the LORD who had spoken to her: “You are the God who sees me,” for she said, “Here I have seen the One who sees me!”
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    Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi. It is located between Kadesh and Bered.
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    And Hagar bore Abram a son, and Abram gave the name Ishmael to the son she had borne.
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    Abram was eighty-six years old when Hagar bore Ishmael to him.

Genesis Chapter 16 Commentary

Genesis 16 – When God Shows Up in the Desert

What’s this chapter about?

This is the story of Hagar – the Egyptian servant caught in the crossfire of Abraham and Sarah’s impatience with God’s promise. It’s about what happens when human solutions collide with divine plans, and how God sees the overlooked and abandoned in ways that will completely change how you understand His heart.

The Full Context

Genesis 16 sits at a crucial turning point in Abraham’s story. We’re about ten years after God’s initial promise in Genesis 12, and Abraham and Sarah are still childless. Sarah is approaching 75, well past childbearing age even by ancient standards, and the biological impossibility of the promise is becoming undeniable. The cultural pressure for an heir was immense – without one, Abraham’s name would disappear, his wealth would scatter, and God’s covenant would seem like cruel mockery. In this context, Sarah’s plan to use her Egyptian servant Hagar as a surrogate wasn’t just reasonable – it was the culturally expected solution.

But this chapter isn’t really about family planning gone wrong. It’s about the collision between human pragmatism and divine patience, and more importantly, it’s about how God responds to the casualties of that collision. Hagar becomes the first person in Scripture to receive a direct visitation from the Angel of the Lord, the first to give God a name, and the first to experience divine rescue in the wilderness. Her story sets up themes that will echo throughout Scripture: God’s special concern for the oppressed, His ability to work through flawed human choices, and His refusal to abandon those who find themselves alone in the desert places of life.

What the Ancient Words Tell Us

The Hebrew in this chapter is loaded with wordplay that reveals deeper meanings. When Sarah gives Hagar to Abraham, the text uses banah, which means both “to build” and “to have children through.” Sarah literally says, “Perhaps I will be built up through her” – she’s trying to construct the family God promised through her own architectural plans.

Grammar Geeks

The word for “afflicted” (anah) in verse 6 is the same root used for Israel’s oppression in Egypt. Hagar, the Egyptian, experiences at the hands of the Hebrews what the Hebrews will later experience at the hands of the Egyptians. It’s biblical irony that cuts deep.

But here’s where it gets fascinating: when Hagar flees, she runs toward Egypt – derek Shur – “the way to Shur.” This isn’t just geography; Shur means “wall” or “fortification.” She’s literally heading toward the walls, toward protection, toward home. But God meets her at a spring, a ma’yan – a place of life-giving water in the desert. The contrast is deliberate: human walls versus divine springs.

What Would the Original Audience Have Heard?

Ancient readers would have immediately recognized the cultural dynamics at play. Surrogate motherhood through servants was completely normal – we have contracts from this period detailing exactly how it worked. Sarah wasn’t being innovative; she was following standard practice. When Hagar conceives and begins to despise Sarah, that was expected too. Fertile women had higher status than barren ones, and everyone knew it.

But then the story takes unexpected turns. First, when Hagar encounters the Angel of the Lord, she calls Him El Roi – “the God who sees me.” This is revolutionary. In ancient Near Eastern thought, gods were associated with places, peoples, nations. They had territories and boundaries. But here’s an Egyptian servant woman, meeting Israel’s God in no-man’s land, and discovering He sees her personally.

Did You Know?

Hagar is the first person in the Bible to give God a name. Not Abraham, not Sarah – a foreign servant woman fleeing abuse becomes the first to encounter God personally and name the experience.

Second, God promises to multiply Hagar’s descendants. This was unprecedented. Divine promises of multiplication were reserved for covenant people, not foreign servants. Yet God extends this blessing to someone completely outside the covenant line, showing that His concern transcends ethnic and social boundaries.

But Wait… Why Did God Tell Her to Go Back?

This is where modern readers often stumble. God finds Hagar in the wilderness, acknowledges her suffering, promises her a great future for her son – and then tells her to return to Sarah and submit to her authority. Why would a just God send an abused woman back to her abuser?

The answer lies in understanding both divine timing and ancient realities. First, God isn’t endorsing abuse – He’s acknowledging that Hagar’s ultimate deliverance hasn’t arrived yet. Her son Ishmael will need to be born into Abraham’s household to receive his inheritance and protection. Running away now would leave both mother and child vulnerable to bandits, slavery, or death in the desert.

Wait, That’s Strange…

God promises Hagar that her son will be “a wild donkey of a man” – which sounds insulting until you realize that in desert culture, wild donkeys were symbols of freedom and survival. God is promising Ishmael will be unconquerable and free.

But there’s something deeper happening. God is teaching both Hagar and us about His character. He doesn’t always deliver us from difficult situations immediately, but He never leaves us in them without His presence and promise. Sometimes the miracle isn’t escape – it’s endurance with divine perspective.

Wrestling with the Text

The theological tensions in this chapter are real and shouldn’t be smoothed over. We see a God who allows polygamy and concubinage, who seems to send an abuse victim back to her abuser, who promises blessing to both the son of promise (Isaac, not yet born) and the son of human scheming (Ishmael). How do we reconcile this with our understanding of divine justice and love?

Part of the answer lies in recognizing that God works within human systems while ultimately transforming them. He doesn’t endorse Abraham and Sarah’s plan, but He doesn’t abandon the people caught up in it either. Hagar receives divine visitation, naming rights with God, and promises for her son. Sarah’s plan “works” in that she gets a child in the household, but it creates conflict that will last for millennia.

“God doesn’t always deliver us from difficult situations immediately, but He never leaves us in them without His presence and promise.”

The chapter also forces us to grapple with the reality that God’s plans often unfold through human mess-ups. Abraham and Sarah’s impatience doesn’t derail the covenant – it complicates it, adds new characters to the story, and ultimately reveals more of God’s character than a tidy success story would have.

How This Changes Everything

This chapter rewrites our understanding of who matters to God. If the God of Abraham and Sarah sees and saves an Egyptian servant woman, then there’s no one too foreign, too low in status, or too entangled in other people’s mistakes to be beyond His care. Hagar’s story becomes a preview of the gospel – God seeking the lost, the displaced, the overlooked.

It also changes how we understand unanswered prayer and delayed promises. Abraham and Sarah waited ten years for God to act, then took matters into their own hands. But God’s timeline included provisions they couldn’t see – not just for Isaac, but for Ishmael and Hagar too. Sometimes what feels like divine delay is actually divine inclusion, making room for people and purposes we hadn’t considered.

The name Hagar gives God – El Roi, “the God who sees” – becomes one of the most comforting revelations of divine character in Scripture. In a world where the powerful often become invisible and the vulnerable are ignored, we serve a God who sees it all and intervenes on behalf of those who have nowhere else to turn.

Key Takeaway

When human plans create chaos, God doesn’t abandon the casualties – He meets them in the wilderness, sees their pain, and writes their stories into His larger purpose. No one is too far outside the covenant community to matter to the God who sees.

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